Clarissa Pinkola Estes
Women Who Run With the Wolves
many women are instinct-injured.
they literally cannot see that things can be any different.
it’s easy to feel angry at them.
and it’s easy to want to expect ‘better’ of them.
but we will never reach them with anger, blame, or shame.
some, we will simply never reach. ever.
(that‘s a bitter pill to swallow.)
i feel such grief for women.
in so many ways, we are in such an unwinnable situation.
we’re damned if we do, damned if we don’t.
i feel such compassion for these women.
for many, it’s a matter of emotional survival.
a matter of love, approval, security.
this f—ed up system has stockholm sydromed them.
and then there’s the issue of ...
no woman is obligated to think how i think
or believe what i believe.
if i want this freedom, i have to allow it in others, too.
most of all ...
women have to stop blaming women.
we, most of us, so many of us ...
are doing the best we can.
i see you doing the best you can.
keep doing your own work.
that’s all any of us can do.